Formulation of Successful Marriage Model:A Qualitative study

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1 1.PhD Candidate, Department of Counseling, Khuzestan Science and Research Branch, Islamic Azad University‚ Ahvaz ‚ Iran. 2.PhD Candidate, Department of Counseling, Ahvaz Branch, Islamic Azad University‚ Ahvaz‚ Iran.

2 Invited teacher, Department of Counseling, Islamic Azad University, Ahvaz, Iran. Associate professor Department of Counseling, College of Educational and Psychology, ShahidChamran University of Ahvaz.

3 Assisstant professorDepartment of Counseling, Islamic Azad University, Ahvaz, Iran

Abstract

Healthy marriage has a essential role in forming healthy family. The purpose of this study is to forming successful marriage. This study was done by qualitative research and grounded theory method. Statistical community of this study were the whole couple of yasuj city that thay had at least 5 years together. purposeful sampling was used to collect data. Sampling continued antil theoretical saturation was obtained of totally 26 participants(13couples) which high marital satisfaction were interviewed in semi structured and in depth method and analyzed using the constant comparative method of Struss and Corbin.The finding indicated that progress toward keeping and countinuing relationship and life was proseted as a main category and spouse selection based upon well knowing as caused and meditating condition in five levels, personal, couples, families, cultural –social, parental.strategies of struggle solving were divided in two strategies,couple struggle solving strategy and family struggle solving strategy. Finally marital satisfaction that is the result of central category was explained. presenting the model of successful marriage can be considered as a model and a direction for couples. and will benefit for pdychologist and counsolors of marriage and will eventually assist to the society health.

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